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Signs of a Cheating Spouse

By Nancy Reed

It is often prudent to do things one's self. Often times, costs much less than hiring a professional, not to mention the sense of satisfaction that comes from tackling a project your self. Other times, however, attempting something you are unfamiliar with can make a huge mess that you simply cannot clean, and cost more in money, damage and effort that it would have if you had hired a pro to start with.

Private investigations are not something a lay person should attempt, especially if they are concerned about infidelity.

There are countless numbers of no-cost lists of "signs of a cheating lovers, etc. on the Internet. And a lot of them make good points. Research has consistently shown that in more than 90% of cases, spouses who worried they were being cheated on, were right. So if you've already your significant other is up to no good, stop right there and let a pro find the info.

Many times obtaining the truth is pretty easy and does not require a private detective to stalk their prey for weeks at a time at $80 an hour. In many cases a phone number is all it takes.

It is often fairly easy for a professional PI to find out if you should be worried. It likely won't require thousands of dollars and weeks of time like in the movies, either. In fact, quite often a phone number is all that is required to get the ball of discovery rolling.

Cell communication provides cheaters with a sense of invisibility, and a feeling that they cannot be found out. Discovering the source of strange, late, or conveniently-timed phone calls will often point to the other cheater.

This sort of digging should be left to experienced investigators. Attempting to find the truth yourself often results in a botched investigation, and being caught by those you are trying to catch. And then they are too careful to every give you opportunity again.

Discovering who the suspicious party is chatting with is usually all that is required to determine whether there is something to worry about or not. Sadly, there are many sites on the web that scam their customers by accepting payment, and then simply forwarding the customer to a different, unrelated site that performs legitimate phone number searches. Consumers should be careful and select sites that make it clear that they perform their own investigations rather that outsourcing the work.

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