samedi 23 mai 2009

How To Approach Women With More Confidence

By Alex Smoke

The very first step to finding a girlfriend that matches up to you is to first work on yourself. What does that mean exactly? First of all, it depends on how much emotional stability you have. I advise you to get their act together first before diving back into the dating scene. They should spend some time alone, like a weekend, and take out a notebook or journal you want to call it, and write down the things that are important to them and write down their goals in life.

The biggest problem most guys have is the ability to approach women. If men struggle approaching women, it makes it even harder to talk to them. Dating is already hard enough. The last thing any man needs is add stress when it comes to approaching women. The great news for guys is that girls are now making dating a lot easier. When are now willing to help men learn how approach and start conversations with them.

It is amazing how women can get attracted to men like children are to candy. If you consider things carefully some of those men are not even all that, in fact some of them can be the downright unattractive. But how does it happen that people like this bag chicks? Let's just say that they have done their research and learned the amazing art of attracting women.

A lot of guys want to learn how to get a girlfriend. Some guys come from a place of neediness, feeling incomplete if they do not have a girlfriend. If anyone is feeling this way then I just tell them they are not ready to have a girlfriend. First of all people should be happy by themselves and when they meet someone else, that person only adds to level on happiness and contentment. It's wrong to place one's own happiness on another human being.

The art of attracting women is something that every man who wants wins a woman should master. Such an art doesn't take a lot of fancy things. You have everything that you need within you. It's just a matter of discovering that attractive man within you. A basic principle to live and to remember by when trying to attract women is that you first need to become attractive in order to attract women. Before you start giving yourself a physical makeover, just remember that being attractive to a woman does not necessarily have to come physically.

For example, let us say that your goal is to travel the world for a couple of years. And you would want to find a girl has a similar goal or you should be single while you are traveling, so you can hook up or have casual relationships that suit your needs. When you have figured out what type of girl you want then you can begin looking for you. Now just bear in mind that the more girls you date, the more you will learn about yourself and about what you want in a woman.

Once you get over these barriers you'll find that you can do things that you used to find difficult and that your confidence has increased. With increased self value and self confidence approaching women and even talking to them will come easier. Girls are usually attracted to people with who are confident enough to approach them. What's more is that girls are by nature emotional and talking is a best way for them to get in touch with their emotional sides. So If you can talk to women more then you open up their emotions.

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