Breaking up is not easy, and being dumped is always harder. If you have been dumped without any reason, it leaves you clueless. You start asking yourself whether you have failed him in some respect or the other, whether he got bored of you or got himself a new girlfriend!
While there might be several reasons for guys breaking up, here're some tips that could help you regain his love and take the relationship forward.
You've got to stay sane
First, don't act like a fool when he breaks up with you, acting desperate just fuels their ego. Bite your tongue and go along with it, as difficult as it may be. You may even suggest that you were thinking of breaking up yourself, this will throw him off guard.
Men tend to want most what they can't have so turning the tables on him could just make him rethink the breakup. Regardless of what happens, after the initial breakup give yourself time to think about things. Do I really want him back? Is he good for me? Will he do this again?
Remember that you can win him back by acting smart, and not desperate.
Interact, but smartly. The sanity thing is very important.
Send him a short letter saying that you understand and respect his decision and you think some time apart may be good for you. Keep your emotions in check, be straight to the point, and don't get emotional. Let him know that you are available to talk if he wants to but let him contact you, just put a phone number or email address in the letter and leave it at that.
It would be foolish for you to expect that he will come running to you, or any such immediate results. Do not check you mailbox regularly, realize the amount of free time you have at hand, and use it for pampering yourself. If he calls you sometime, do not receive the call hastily, giving the impression that you have been waiting for his call.
If your ex boyfriend ignores you, don't fret. Sometimes the fact that he is ignoring you just means he is cooling off and thinking about things. He broke up with you to get time away from you, for one reason or another, so give him some time before you try to talk it out.
You're life doesn't end with a break up, live it!
Do not moan and whine about your past relationship. Many go through this difficult stage of life. Take it in your stride and move on, life has better things to offer. Go out and have fun with your friends instead of staying cooped up at home. This change of your mindset might even affect your ex boyfriend positively, and thus make him reconsider his decision to break up with you!
Men, in general, have a fascination for those very things they can't get- and hence, if he sees you moving on without him, he could come back and beg for a second chance. The ball is in your court now- you have to take the decision! Go out and enjoy life instead of wasting it over someone who is not always worth it.
While there might be several reasons for guys breaking up, here're some tips that could help you regain his love and take the relationship forward.
You've got to stay sane
First, don't act like a fool when he breaks up with you, acting desperate just fuels their ego. Bite your tongue and go along with it, as difficult as it may be. You may even suggest that you were thinking of breaking up yourself, this will throw him off guard.
Men tend to want most what they can't have so turning the tables on him could just make him rethink the breakup. Regardless of what happens, after the initial breakup give yourself time to think about things. Do I really want him back? Is he good for me? Will he do this again?
Remember that you can win him back by acting smart, and not desperate.
Interact, but smartly. The sanity thing is very important.
Send him a short letter saying that you understand and respect his decision and you think some time apart may be good for you. Keep your emotions in check, be straight to the point, and don't get emotional. Let him know that you are available to talk if he wants to but let him contact you, just put a phone number or email address in the letter and leave it at that.
It would be foolish for you to expect that he will come running to you, or any such immediate results. Do not check you mailbox regularly, realize the amount of free time you have at hand, and use it for pampering yourself. If he calls you sometime, do not receive the call hastily, giving the impression that you have been waiting for his call.
If your ex boyfriend ignores you, don't fret. Sometimes the fact that he is ignoring you just means he is cooling off and thinking about things. He broke up with you to get time away from you, for one reason or another, so give him some time before you try to talk it out.
You're life doesn't end with a break up, live it!
Do not moan and whine about your past relationship. Many go through this difficult stage of life. Take it in your stride and move on, life has better things to offer. Go out and have fun with your friends instead of staying cooped up at home. This change of your mindset might even affect your ex boyfriend positively, and thus make him reconsider his decision to break up with you!
Men, in general, have a fascination for those very things they can't get- and hence, if he sees you moving on without him, he could come back and beg for a second chance. The ball is in your court now- you have to take the decision! Go out and enjoy life instead of wasting it over someone who is not always worth it.
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